Guidelines for Problem Solving in a Relationship

  1. Never use physical violence
  2. Always complete the argument
  3. Avoid name-calling
  4. Stick to the issue at hand
  5. Never threaten to withdraw love
  6. Don't use the "silent treatment"
  7. When you are wrong, admit it
  8. Never deliberately embarrass eachother or others by arguing in public
  9. Listen to your partner
  10. Don't be bitter or carry a grudge