SAFER SEX MENU
Light Fare
Talking to eachother about safer sex
Kissing and Hugging
Back rubs, foot rubs, and body rubs while still partially dressed
Listening to music and/or dancing together
Playing strip poker, strip backgammon, or spin-the-bottle
Stroking, brushing, or playing with each other's hair
Caressing, tickling, pinching, and nibbling each other through clothes
Reading erotic literature together
Looking at erotic pitures
Watching erotic movies on the VCR
Talking sexy or sharing fantasies
Dry humping
Undressing each other, or watching each other undress
Dressing up in erotic lingerie or costumes
Showering together
Kissing or licking or fondling your partner's body
(except for the genitals and anus)
Rubbing any nonpetroleum-based body oil or lotion
on each other or yourself
Putting a condom on your partner
Entrees
Petting with no clothes on
Stroking, caressing, and fondling your partner's body
(including the genitals and anus)
Mutual or simultaneous masturbation to orgasm with your hands
(with or without condoms, with no exchange of semen or vaginal fluids)
Mutual or simultaneous masturbation with a vibrator (no sharing!)
Rubbing your penis against healthy, unbroken skin on your partner's body,
between the breasts, between the lower thighs, or against the buttocks,
making sure not to ejaculate in or on your partner's orifices
Rubbing your vulva against healthy, unbroken skin on your partner's body,
avoiding contact with your partner's body orifices
Oral sex (fellatio) while wearing a condom
Oral sex (cunnilingus) while using a rubber dam or plastic wrap
Vaginal intercourse with a condom
Vaginal or anal penetration with a sex toy (no sharing!)
Desserts
Licking whipped cream or flavored nonpetroleum-based oil
off your partner's body, except for unprotected body openings
Masturbationg while your partner watches or holds you
Bodypainting with non-petroleum-based body paints
Holding each other
Talking to each other
Sleeping together
Eatting breakfast, lunch, or dinner in bed
Starting over